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The legacy I want to leave
The author reflects on their critical view of the Christian church shaped by past abuses and rejection due to their sexuality. Over time, their stance softened, recognizing that the church’s flaws stem from humans rather than God. Emphasizing the teachings of Jesus, the author seeks to embody love, compassion, and forgiveness in their life.
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The root of the problem
After enduring ongoing trauma triggered by work challenges, financial instability, and separation from my husband, I found myself entrenched in grief and unhealthy coping mechanisms. Despite years of healing from past abuse, I still struggle to confront and heal from new layers of trauma. Facing and healing from trauma requires consistent, focused attention and the…
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The hard work of healing
I would never want anyone reading this blog to believe that I think I am holier-than-thou, or do not understand how painful, dark and convoluted the healing journey can be, because I have been there. My healing journey was messy, though I tried to keep people believing I had it all together. The reality is…
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Refined by abuse
I am a survivor of both childhood sexual abuse and spiritual abuse. Though these are two distinct and different forms of abuse, for me the two are, and will forever be, intrinsically linked. These experiences were deeply painful and were an integral part of my identity for decades. What I desired more than anything was…
Refined by Abuse 